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Your question: I cheated on my boyfriend. Can I win him back?
Dear Mookychick,
I cheated on my boyfriend of 6 years 2 years ago and he found out. He got
really angry but he said he would forgive me. Stupidly I started
talking to
the guy I cheated with and we became friends, but my boyfriend found out
and we
fought constantly about it. He heard something about me and the guy
having
an affair and he chose to believe it, but it was totally untrue and he left
me
about 2 months ago.
The problem now is I really love him and want him
back,
but I don't know what to do to get him back. I've tried everything, even
begged, but he won't have me back. I'm really depressed about this and
I
really need to get him back. Can you help me?
Love, Anonymous Me xxx
The Mookychick answer to your problem
Ashley says...
If you wanted him back, you would have stayed away from temptation.
You're not happy with this guy, as the fact that you went back to
hombre numero dos to start up a friendship indicates that your libido
knows more about your true intentions than your mind, or at least what
you're letting on. Something is telling you that things are not right
with this boy you've been with for six years.
You can't have stability
and the freedom to mess around with other people unless such an
arrangement has been worked out quite thoroughly with your significant
other. For every one couple that an open relationship works for there
are probably about 50,000 for whom it ain't gonna happen. Welcome to
the 50,000. Now go find someone you're happy with.
More Mooky Advice Links
www.relate.org.uk (Email counsellors about relationships)
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