Your question: A beloved gay friend fancies my man
Dear Mookychick,
I have the typical teenage girl issue... guys. There are two boys in
my school that I like.
One I met over the summer when he came on a
trip with me and my mates. He is for lack of a better term, a bad boy. But
he is hot and a sweetheart, and when my mobile died he let me use his to
call my friend who had been in an accident.
The other guy my best mate
swears is just like me. And he is - we both speak Japanese, are obsessed
with anime/manga, love drawing and music, we get along really well and
he knows all my friends and I have known his sister for a while. I
don't know what to do. Should I go with the Bad Boy or the guy I know won't
hurt me?
Love, Anonymous Me xxx
The Mookychick answer to your problem
Amanda says...
Hey, no problem! You're young, you've got your whole life ahead. Have
fun! Surely it's not a question of which one, but which one first! At
your age relationships rarely last for ever.
I suggest you have your
fling with the bad boy first - they're never long-term options, after
all. He'll probably break your heart and you'll need someone loving and
stable to pick up the pieces.
That's when the lovely arty manga boy
should come into play - he sounds much more like a long term project. Just
make sure you don't get a bad reputation or make embarassing public
'mistakes' with the bad boy, in case it puts arty manga boy off. Good luck!
Ashley says...
First of all, what's the rush? Must you chose a fiancee before the ides
of October, or else lose your eccentric late uncle's vast fortune,
which he left to you only on the stipulation that you find your soul
mate before the first yew leaf fell? Or some 'chit?
As for these two entrees, the first, well his one redeeming feature is
that he let you use his mobile? As for the second, he sounds like you
consider him well beneath you. Just because you're obviously looking
to be hurt doesn't mean you should so casually toss about other
people's affections. You may need a good heart-breaking (a few are
useful for toughening up that shoeleathery organ, the heart, during adolescence).
Please, just don't let the bad boy impregnate you.
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